Being the mom to 3 boys, I have learned cleaning your house while your kids are still growing up is like shoveling the walk before it stops snowing.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Growing Up

We had tons of snow yesterday.  I told the boys we needed to go out before Dad got home and clean off the driveway.  Dominic insisted I not use the snow blower because he "wanted to work".  I have to brag on Dominic now.  He did an awesome job!  He shoveled the driveway - over half of it - by himself.  When we were done, he turned to me and said, "Let's go get Mrs. R's done now."  He only had to be re-focused once because he was laying down on the job.  He earned his money with the snow shovel last night.

At one point, I stopped shoveling just to admire my son and his work ethic.  He caught me leaning against my shovel and I think he was proud that he caught me "not working" too.  When we were done with the neighbor's driveway, Dominic took a step back and slung the shovel over his shoulder.  He said, "Mom, I think we did a really good job."  I had to agree.

It still amazes me how shoveling a driveway for a 6yr old could teach him so much about life.  I explained to him that whenever you are doing a job, you should always do a job you can be proud of later.  He also learned that a good job is rewarded.  I was trying to explain that "reward" sometimes must be self-satisfaction.  He learned quickly, that it can also get you paid with money when his Dad gave him $10!

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